Sunday, April 3, 2011

Biter Biscuits!

Presley had her first "finger food" last week. During Kiley's lunch, I gave Presley a biter biscuit to see what she would do with it. She loved it!

We are hoping that as Presley develops and advances that it will help Kiley as well. I gave Kiley a biscuit too!

She mouthed it for a while, just like Sister. She didn't quite get as down and dirty as her sister, but it was progress!

Presley loved showing off for the camera with her big girl food.

When I say dirty, I mean dirty. Those things are soooo messy! Biter biscuit was everywhere! It took me longer to clean her up than it took her to eat it!

Monday, March 28, 2011

Thank you

I just wanted to take a few minutes to thank our amazing support system. First of all, I would like to thank everyone who reached out to us after reading my post on MWS. It is so reassuring to know that we have such amazing friends and family who care so deeply for us and are saying special prayers for us.

In addition, I would like to thank our wonderful family who have been amazing over these last two years.

Dear Grammy & Grampy,

Thank you for always being just a phone call away. Thank you for rushing down on 10 minutes notice to stay with Presley while we took Kiley to the doctor. Thank you for keeping us company in the hospital. Thank you for staying with the girls so Mommy and Daddie can have a night out. Thank you for having us for dinner in the middle of the week, so Mommy doesn't have to cook and sending leftovers home with us so she doesn't have to cook the next night either =). Thank you for taking shifts with Marmee and Guy to help take care of Kiley when she was so sick right after Presley was born and Mommy couldn't be with her. Thank you, Grampy, for cleaning the vomit out of the car after one of Kiley's seizures. Thank you, Grammy, for staying the extra 20 minutes last December so that you were still with us when Kiley had her 4th seizure. Thank you for coming to help us so much during the week the first couple months of Presley's life when Kiley was so sick. We miss you so much when you go on your trips, but we look forward to seeing you when you come home to us and we love showing you how much we have grown and developed! We are looking forward to our boat rides this summer!

Dear Marmee & Guy,

Thank you for always being here for us when we need you, and making the decision to come be with us after Kiley's seizures even though we tell you not to. Thank you for rushing to the ER for both of Kiley's complex seizures. Thank you, Marmee, for holding Kiley in the ER when she had to get an IV for dehydration and Mommy couldn't be there because Presley was only 2 weeks old. Thank you for holding Kiley when she is sick to give her the motherly love Mommy couldn't when Presley was first born and sleeping on the couch outside Kiley's room just to make Mommy feel better. Thank you for taking care of Presley when we stayed the night in the hospital with Kiley during her second seizure. Thank you for helping us through Kiley's 3rd seizure on Thanksgiving morning and offering to go buy a turkey from wal-mart if we didn't want to travel with Kiley. Thank you for rushing up to the house after Kiley's most recent seizure and bringing your dinner that you were about to sit down and eat and making sure Mommy ate it with you. Thank you for letting us come stay with you when Mommy and Daddie go out of town. Thank you for making fun memories with us and letting us get wild and crazy!! Thank you for sitting down and feeding us even while Mommy is home, just so she can have a little break to sit back and watch her girls.

Dear Aunti K,

Thank you for coming to visit us on your days off from work and playing with us to let Mommy go run some errands. Thank you for letting us dress up in your tshirts and watch your fun movies. Thank you for getting us our first My Little Ponies and brushing their tails after we get them all matted up from carrying them around and chewing on them. Thank you for getting down on the floor and playing with us the entire time you come to visit. Thank you for letting us come play at your house even though Sweetie gets jealous =).

Dear Aunt M,

Thank you for coming to spend the night with us during the week and helping feed and bath us before we go to bed. Thank you for sacrificing your weekends to come stay with us when Mommy and Daddie are out of town. Thank you for sending Mommy pictures and videos the whole time she is away from us. Thank you for loving us unconditionally and giving us a million kisses every time you see us.

Dear Daddie,

Thank you for being so strong for Mommy. Thank you for helping Mommy to stay positive when she needs it the most. Thank you for getting us to the ER quickly and safely during Kiley's seizures. Thank you for taking Kiley to the after hours pediatrician when Kiley was sick right after Presley was born and filling out ALL of the paperwork. Thank you for taking Kiley to get her ear surgery all by yourself after staying up the night before with Presley when she was newborn to feed her every two hours, when Mommy was sick. (I should also thank Grammy, Grampy, Marmee, Guy and Aunt M for all coming back around us after catching the same horrible virus from the hospital that Mommy had while visiting Kiley). Thank you for being the rock of our family.

There are a lot of Thank You's in this post, but it does not even scratch the surface of all that you all have done for us. Despite our challenges, you have all been here for us and we could not have done it without your love and support. You have made many sacrifices for us over the last couple of years and we cannot Thank You enough. We love you all very much.

Love,
Mikey, Lacey, Kiley & Presley

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Mowat Wilson Syndrome (MWS)

In December, we took Kiley to see a Genetics Specialist. The more we talked to doctors over the last two years, the more we began to think that her low birth weight, heart defect, seizures and developmental delay could all be linked. The Genetics Specialist confirmed our suspicions and diagnosed Kiley with Mowat Wilson Syndrome (MWS).

The following is a definition that I found online. I have bolded the symptoms that Kiley has:

Mowat-Wilson Syndrome (MWS) is a recently defined mental retardation syndrome (1998) usually associated with multiple health defects and recognizable facial properties caused by a genetic mutation. The major health defects include Hirschsprung's Disease (although not in all cases), intellectual disabilities, seizures, congenital heart disease, Agenesis of the Corpus Callosum, male genital abnormalities (hypospadias) and smaller than normal heads. Facial properties include prominent narrow chin, open mouth, cupped ears with protruding lobes, broad nasal bridge with rounded nasal tip, and wide set eyes.

Intellectual disabilities - Kiley was diagnosed with a developmental delay at 15 months when she wasn't crawling yet. We put her in Speech and Occupational Therapy thru ECI. They came to our house once a week to work with Kiley. Since the diagnosis, we have gotten her into Physical Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Speech Therapy and Feeding Therapy at Our Children's House at Baylor. We go dowtown twice a week.

She has physical therapy in the pool every monday morning.

Then we get her dried off and changed and we walk two blocks back to Our Children's house for Occupational Therapy. She always starts her OT session by swinging. This gets her more arroused and more willing to work and play.

On Tuesday Mornings, she starts with Physical Therapy in the Gym. This is a cool walker that helps her walk on her own without support.

After PT, she has speech and feeding therapy. I wait in the waiting room for her during these sessions. She just started these this past week. The therapists said she did great for her first sessions.

Our Children's House is a very expensive, but also a very intense program. It is supposed to be one of the best in the area, especially with feeding. As of now, therapy is really the only thing we can do to help Kiley develop, so getting her the best therapy that we can find is a no brainer. It is so reassuring that she has been meeting all developmental milestones, just at a slower pace. As of now, she is at the same developmnental stage as a 1 year old. She crawls all over the place (and fast), she pulls up on furniture and cruises around.

The speech and feeding are more of a concern with MWS, so we want to really focus on those. Kiley says Hi and Bye. She also says Momma and Daddie, but not all of the time. She doesn't quite understand that those are our names. She also says Baby. We have also been working on feeding. In the last week, she has eaten string cheese. She actually puts it in her mouth and swallows! Very big step! We are also working on sign language. She can say "more", "all done" and "bath".

So she is definitely making progress. She works very hard for every milestone she meets and we are so proud of her!

I bet you are wondering how we manage this intense therapy schedule with a 6 month old. Well we have had a recent blessing come into our lives. We knew that we could not keep Presley up at the hospital during Kiley's therapy, so she would need to stay home. I started asking around for recommendations. We have a old family friend that is currently at UNT, so I called her one day to see if she had any friends that would like to help us out. She said she would love to help us! So, our dear friend, Lindsey has been helping us ever since. She comes to stay with Presley while we go to therapy. She also stays a couple extra hours with both girls so that I can run errands if I need to. We are so Thankful to have Lindsey. It is so reasurring to leave the girls with someone that I have known her whole life and completely trust. We love you so much Lindsey and appreciate everything you have done for us over the last couple of months!

One day after Lindsey left, Kiley started crying and went and hid in the corner. I had to take a picture. It was so sweet. Needless to say, both girls love Lindsey!


Seizures - Kiley had her first seizure in January of 2010. It was diagnosed as a febrile seizure (induced by fever). It was a complex seizure (lasting longer than 10 minutes), which results in a trip to the ER where she gets medication to get her out of it and then admission to the hospital to be monitored for the next 24 hours. She had her 2nd complex febrile seizure on November 4th. While we were in the hospital for this one, we met with a neurologist who assured us that these seizures were not doing any damage and as long as they are fever induced, he is not concerned. Many kids have these and grow out of them by the age of 6. He prescribed a medication that we can give Kiley at home instead of taking her into the ER. Since the 4th, Kiley has had three simple febrile seizures, one Thanksgiving morning, one on December 15th, and the most recent one was on March 12th. She came out of these on her own and only lasted a couple of minutes. They have been more recurrent because Kiley has constantly been sick since she is in Mother's Day Out and cold and flu season has hit. We took her out of MDO at the end of Janurary and she had been completely healthy until last weekend. Fortunately, her immune system is not affected by MWS. We continue to pray that even though the seizures are very scary for us, they continue to be fever induced and she grows out of them without forming epilepsy.

Congenital heart disease - Kiley was diagnosed with an Atrial Septal Defect (ASD) when she was 10 months old. At the time it was 8mm and now it is 10mm. At our last visit with the cardiologist in December, it was confirmed that the hole will not close up by itself and Kiley will need open heart surgery. This condition will not affect her until she is at least 12 or 13, so she has been going every 6 months for a checkup. She will have Open Heart Surgery in June of 2012 to close the hole.

As for physical features of MWS, Kiley's seem to be pretty minimal. Most people would not even notice at this point. She has a smaller than normal head. As for the protruding lobes, her ear lobes curve out a little bit at the bottom. She also has a broad nasal bridge with rounded nasal tip which basically means that the bridge of her nose comes down more than ours does.

Last month we took Kiley to the eye doctor. Her therapists had some concerns abou ther eyesight. He gave her a B+. He said she has some nearsightedness and a little bit of a stigmatism. He was a little concerned about the nearsigtedness because it is very uncommon in children, but there was no need for glasses at this point. He also checked her for two other things and she did not show signs of them. We were very thankful for the good news! She was such a big girl and sat up in the chair all by herself!

Since MWS is so new, we do not have a lot of answers to our questions and concerns about what will be in Kiley's future. Since it was founded, they have studied both children and adults, but the adults that they studied were not diagnosed at a young age and there was not the therapy available that we have today.

Over the last few months, we have done some research and as far as we have seen and read, we feel like we are very lucky and that Kiley is on the moderate side of the syndrome. There are other families out there that have had it way harder than we have, and we thank God for that and pray for those other families.

We have a very loving family and a great support system. Our lives changed forever last December and we are adjusting the best way we know how. We know this is God's plan for us. We know that this is nothing that we did and we know that it is not hereditary and will not affect Presley. It has already made us stronger as a couple and as parents. Saying that Kiley is a strong little girl is absolutely an understatement. She has already shown us her strength in everything she has been through in the last two years and we know she will be an amazing person despite the challenges she will face.

She is an individual and her own person like everyone else, so her journey through life with MWS will be different than all others. All we can do is get her the therapy that she needs and treat her for the things that can be treated. We will continue to pray that God will guide us and help us to stay positive. The big concern for the future are her seizures. We pray they are just temporary and will not get worse.

We have multiple purposes for this post. We are blogging about MWS to help spread awareness. Since this condition is so new, there isn't a lot of information or support groups out there. It isn't that it is rare, it is just new and under-diagnosed. We can only hope that word spreads and we are some day able to have a local support system.

We are also blogging about MWS because we know you read our blog because you love our family and love Kiley and only want the best for her. We want to share Kiley's journey with you. We appreciate all of the love and support you have given us and your prayers and positive thoughts are needed now more than ever.

Catch all blog....

So I realized recently that I haven't been blogging very much. I am usually so good with taking pictures, uploading them to the computer and blogging right away. I realized that the problem is that I haven't been taking many pictures on my camera lately. I have been taking them from my phone! I uploaded some random pictures from my phone to share. When I say random, I mean random. The beauty of the iPhone is that you can take a picture or video and text or email it right away to share. I have been neglecting the blog world, so hopefully this will get me caught up!

So, one of my favorite baby things has been the stationary positioner. Especially when the girls are young, you can take it anywhere in the house and they sit comfortably and watch what you are doing. Kiley was always so good about sitting patiently and watching Mommy. Well, Presley is a whole different story. A month or so ago, I put Presley in the positioner, turned around for a second, and this is what I came back to.

I took some action shots. Notice both of the dangling toys are no longer dangling.

Needless to say, Presley has officially grown out of the bouncer.

So as of a few weeks ago, I still hadn't purchased a double stroller. I was really struggling with the decision. We already own 5 strollers, all for different purposes of course, so it is only natural that I need multiple double strollers. The problem with this is that they are soooo expensive. I couldn't decide between a side by side or front to back stroller. One of my neighbors let me borrow her side by side "umbrella stroller" for a few days. I bundled the girls up and tested it out for a couple of days.

I loved the side by side for our walks, but they do not do well in public, especially at dr offices because they are so wide. I also learned that the umbrella stroller is not ideal for our long walks. After a lot of thought, I decided that since we walk everyday, my first priority is a good walking stroller. There are very few times when I need to take both girls out in public somewhere. Soooo....the Easter Bunny came early! We are the proud owners of the Double BOB and we absolutely love it!! We walk every day!!

This picture was also a shout out to their wonderful Aunties (Gretch, Hilary, Lisa & T)for their super cute big sister, little sister shirts. They got them for us when I was pregnant, but Presley's was size 6 months, so it finally fits and they look adorable!! Thanks girls!

We have been having play dates with other Mom's and friends. Sara and Summer came over to play one day and we tried to get a few pictures of the girls. It is impossible to get my two girls to both smile and look at the camera at the same time, much less 3 girls...here is our best attempt. We love playing with Summer!!

Guy was on spring break last week and he came to hang out with us on Monday. He listens to his radio station every week night from 430pm to 6pm. He was in heaven listening to his music outside by the pool. Presley has fun hanging with Guy too! Guy knew that Presley needed a hat if she was going to be in the sun. Kiley was sleeping in her room, so Guy went and got his hat out of his golf bag. Thanks for coming to hang with us Guy!

Mikey and I recently ordered an iPad as an anniversary gift to each other. I took the girls to a friend's house a couple of weekends ago and they were showing us an app on theirs that their little boy loves to play. Needless to say, Kiley loved it too, so it looks like it is going to be Mommy, Daddie, and Kiley's new iPad.

Hopefully this post wasn't too random and boring. I just wanted to stay caught up with pictures of my girls! I will try to get caught up on more blog posts in the next few days, so stay tuned! We have a busy couple of months and a lot of events!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Presley is Six Months!

Presley Marie is 6 months old! She is half way to one year old and I am half way through nursing!! Her beautiful smile gets bigger by the day!
We had her well checkup today and she passed with flying colors! We saw Dr. Lin! She works with Dr. Nale.

She weighs 15lbs 3.5oz(35-40%) and is 25 3/4inches(50%)long. I asked if I should be concerned with my milk supply since she dropped in the weight percentile, but the doctor said it is because she is so active.

The doctor and nurses could not believe how active she is. She does not sit still for a single second, unless she is sleeping of course.

They also loved how happy she was. She was all smiles! She got two shots and did not even cry! She had one small yell and then she smiled at the shot lady! Thanks for being so brave Pres!

She has hit so many milestones in the last month! Her diet actually has some variation! She is still nursing 5 times a day (830a, 1130a, 230p, 530p & 830p)and now she has two solid feedings a day. She eats oatmeal for breakfast with her sister every morning. She also eats dinner with big sister now! We just started introducing vegetables instead of oatmeal for dinner. We started with sweet potatoes and she didn't even flinch at the new taste. She ate them right up! I hope all foods are this easy!

She likes to help me feed her. She loves to stick her hands in it. She also grabs the spoon. I let her lick the spoon after each meal.

We are going to continue to introduce veggies and fruit into her diet. We will start giving her fruit with her oatmeal in the mornings and stick to her veggie for dinner. She is also starting to experiment with a sippy cup!

As of her 6 month birthday, she is officially sitting up. She can sit up and play for several minutes by herself.

She does still lose her balance at times. It is so funny, when she does fall, she manages to land on her tummy every time. She pushes up really well during her tummy time now. She is working on getting her legs under her and she even scoots backwards a little bit.

She has really gotten into Baby Einstein lately. She loves to lay in her bean bag and watch.

We bought the girls a toy remote because they are so obsessed with the real ones.

She has also found her feet. She hardly sees them since they are usually covered, but when they are out, they are in her mouth!

I know I always say this, but she is full of smiles! She is constantly smiling. She is such a good, easy baby to care for! The older she gets, the more personality she has and we love getting to know her. She is starting to learn to communicate. She puts her hands in the air when she wants to be picked up. She also cries or yells when she wants something. Just today, she cried when sister took a toy out of her hand and wouldn't give it back!

She is still our little squeeker. In between smiles, she squeeks and squeels! She is still in size two diapers and is in 3-6 months in clothes. Along with her feet, EVERYTHING goes in her mouth!

She loves interacting with her sister. She also loves to play in her Baby Einstein bouncer and still loves to lay in her gym and play. She is pretty easy going. She will sit in the bumbo for short periods of time, but has learned how to buck herself out rather quickly. I am going to buy the tray for the bumbo to put toys on to help keep her busy!

Presley is such a little blessing in our lives and we love her so much. I can't belive she is half way to one year old. I guess I better start planning her 1st birthday party!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Ash Wednesday!

Yesterday was Ash Wednesday which marks the start of Lent! It is one of the only times each year that we go to church during the week. There are several Mass times throughout the day, and I wanted to choose the one that would work best with all of our schedules. We decided to go to the 730pm Mass last night. All of the other ones were during naptimes or meal times and we wanted the girls to be on their best behavior. Since it was so close to their bedtime, they got to go to Mass in their PJs!

We knew they would be exhausted by the time we got home, so we thought it would be easier to have them ready for bed! They were such good girls all during Mass. We were so proud of them! They aren't used to going to church at the end of the day. They both had good naps and a good dinner, so they were in good moods.

We had to take a picture of Presley's first ashes! Poor thing, she was so tired, she fell asleep on our 3 minute drive home. Of course, she was still all smiles! I nursed her and put her right to bed!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Baby Food!

As you know, I made all of Kiley's baby food. In order to treat my daughter's fairly, I am making Presley's food as well. She will be 6 months next week, so I thought I would get ahead of the game and stock the freezer. With all of the money that I am saving on not buying formula or baby food, I invested in a new toy to make baby food making a little easier. I got this new steamer and I can steam multiple things at once! In this picture, I steamed apples, pears, sweet potatoes and carrots all at once!

When I made all of Kiley's food, I steamed everything separately on the stove. This is so much easier and the cleanup is quicker too! Anything to make this process easier is well deserved. So much work still goes into peeling all fruits and veggies, cutting them, and then pureeing them after they are soft. Here is my end result.

The freezer is stocked with carrots, sweet potatoes, plums, pears and apples. I will probably wait until after Presley's 6 month checkup next week to start the fruits and veggies. In the meantime, she loves her oatmeal. I haven't decided which one I am going to start with. Kiley loved all pureed fruits and veggies. I hope Presley will be the same way!